Know About Being A Caregiver For An Elderly Family Member

I just read a very interesting news item that by the year 2040 more than 22.6 % of the US population would be elders; this calls for the need for caregivers to look after the graying population. You may be obliged to take up the responsibility of an elder, with being a caregiver meaning that you should communicate the need to your family and your elderly family member can help you plan and give care without hurt feelings or resistance.

Following the following steps would help you be a caregiver for an elderly family member:

Step 1: 

The first essential step is to arrange for a time and place to meet the rest of the family to discuss the necessity of care for your elderly family member. You could identify their concerns about the elderly family member regarding care, such as memory loss, physical injury or the need for companionship. This would give you the assurance and blessings of the other family members before you assume the role.

Step 2:

The next step is to talk to the elderly family member and make a proposition for care; ensure that you share your feelings and also let them know that you love him/her and also want one to be safe. It would help to ask their opinion regarding the extent of care and then make a care schedule that will work for both of you. If the elder shows some resistance it would help to work around and come up with a solution you're both happy with, like part-time hospice care or a daily check-in.

It is advisable to talk to the elderly family member about their living will, power of attorney to make sure that all legal issues are taken care of before you assume care. This will ensure that your family member's wishes are carried out satisfactorily, and you have the authority to make decisions on behalf of your charge.

Step 3:

Next ensure that you take the necessary training to take care of the medical needs of the elder before you assume charge. Such training could be basic training in CPR and caring methods, taught at local hospitals or community centers; this will help you feel confident while handling the role.

Step 4:

Do your job well and establish your role as a caregiver; give your family members updates of how it is going on and the elderly family member is faring. Make the lifestyle changes by arranging your schedule, moving into their home or arranging for substitute care when you are not able.

Step 5:

Make it to habit to accompany your elderly family member to doctor’s appointments and ask questions about the need for medical care, medications and treatment. Also know from him/her the warning signs of a problem so that you can call and take help in an emergency. Ascertain and ensure that the elder has health insurance or Medicare in place.

Step 6: 

Being a caregiver for an elderly family member can be both physically and emotionally draining, so take help whenever needed. If you work too hard you will be left with resent for your family members; let other family members help and you could look into respite care so you can take a break when you need it.

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